I do come across about women who have low self esteem.low self confidence.etc etc.and somehow.I experienced being with them.and majority of this women are, in a scale of 1-10. 10 being the most beautiful, they are at 10.
I think, technically speaking, evolution made a role in human beings that in order to be loved you need approval from others.(waw.hanep.gumaganun)
I experienced knowing women who display a tough attitude most of the time.and when you get to know them more.they slowly reveal their inner wussy.I dated some.and just can't stand it (girl:I really like you.please stay with me.your making me sad right now.huhu).
for men.they reveal their inner wussy before they even talk to a women(looking at the floor.slouching).the likes are.treating her super special even if you just met 2 minutes ago.(boy: uhm.uuuhh.hi, your really beautiful.uhm.Im sorry but.can I know your name?) (for the girls.you know what I'm saying.and so you can get rid of them right away.hehe)
we are victims of the society.society brainwashed our minds that we need approval of others to gain happiness, joy, or any other good feelings we want.
we don't need approval.we do not need anybody to supplement our happiness.we can want but we don't need(in the context of doing the things we want).
steps on how not to be a wussy (applicable for men only.I dont know how to deal this kind of issue with women.I found out from a female psychologist that I shouldn't give advises to women.for the reason that women have a different way on handling issues.which I believe is true.)
1. know what do you want to do with your life before you die.
2. are the things you do, congruent with what you want in life
3. improve always
4. don just be yourself
5. follow this rules.
6. stop saying sorry.do not be sorry for taking up space in this world.do not be sorry for doing what you want.
7. say sorry if you commit sin :p
8. Know your rights.
P.S. please.bear with my writing style.sorry for not being a good writer
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